It is with heavy hearts and much love we mourn the passing of Shannon Neustater of Oakbank, MB, on November 6, 2023.
Left to Cherish her memory husband Ken, son Landon, sisters Sherry Hofer( Curtis), Tracey Conboy (David), Reg Lanoway (Shane), parents Robert & Virginia Lanoway, nephews Liam, Owain, Dymetro, numerous family members, colleagues and friends.
Shannon was born on August 31, 1973 to Robert and Virginia Lanoway. She grew up on a farm in Beausejour, driving tractors, machinery, and helping on the family farm and construction company. She was the oldest of 4 Children and she was always boldly blazing the trail for her siblings to follow.
She married Ken on July 22, 2006. They loved to go on trips to visit family and enjoy spending time together, cooking and entertaining.
Landon was born 2008 and they spent much of their time together. Shannon loved being a mother and wife and they enjoyed living in Oakbank these last 9 years. Chico, their dog, was never very far from Shannon, he was her constant companion. He loved his naps beside her and cuddles.
Shannon enjoyed her teaching career for the last 23 years, working in a variety of schools, currently serving as Oakbank Elementary school Vice Principal, Oakbank Middle Years School, Beausejour Early Years School, and Anola Elementary. She worked in a variety of positions, loving the connections she made with everyone. As she honed her skills, she blossomed with confidence in each role she took on.
Shannon put others first and was always there to lend a hand, and make her famous lasagna for people that were going through a hard time or in need of cheering up.
Shannon was one of a kind and irreplaceable. Her passing leaves a big void in all our lives. We are blessed to have shared this life with her. We will always hold the memories of the time we spent together.
A Memorial Service will be held Wednesday, November 15 at 10:30 a.m. at Brokenhead River Community Hall, 320 Veterans Lane, Beausejour, MB.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Canadian Diabetes or the Playground Fund that is being developed in her honor, for more information contact Sherry Hofer at shofer268@icloud.com.
To view the service on YouTube, please click on the following link https://youtu.be/59mRi1WTQug
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Ron and Sharon Martin
Our condolences to the Lanoway family
Andy and. Tracey Wurch
Thoughts and prayers on the loss of such a dear woman of God. Praying God’s peace will surround your family at this time.
Elaine and Ron Fehr
We are so very sorry for your loss. Our hearts are sad for each of you. We will be praying for God’s peace and comfort as you grieve.
Helen Longmuir
Thoughts and prayers to all the family
May the memories you have help with your sorrow
The Adolphs
Our hearts go out to family and friends. Shannon was loved by so many.
Diane & Stephen Drawbridge
Our hearts and thoughts are with you.
Julia Peters
Thinking of you Ken and Landon, at this difficult time. There are no words, just know you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Julia and Warren Peters
Len & Barbara Ptak
Our deepest condolences. Our thoughts and prayers are with the families.
Noreen Grandt
May you Rest in the arms of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ until we all meet again.
Robert and Veronica Osiowy
Our condolences go out to the Neustater and Lanoway families. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you. Bob and Veronica Osiowy
Tatjana Burau
My deepest condolences to Shannon’s family. I knew Shannon from helping out at the school. Shannon was always very nice and she always made sure to express her gratitude for all the help. I also liked her sense of humor. She will be greatly missed. The family is in my prayers.
Susan Borkowsky
This is unbelievably sad. Deepest condolences.
Ian, Tyson, Fran & Kerry Mickey
To Ken, Landon & family,
May our thoughts and prayers be with you all at this very shocking sudden sad time in the loss of your loved one. Shannon was a wonderful amazing person inside and out. Our boys loved her as a teacher at BEYS and always loved doing the senior buddy program at East Gate Lodge. Was always great to see her smile, laugh and good times with us. She will be sadly missed but never forgotten in our hearts. RIP Mrs. Shannon Neustater. Peace be with you all. God Bless.
Regards
Ian, Tyson, Fran & Kerry Mickey
Gertie Shack
My deepest sympathy to the Neustarter and Lanoway familes. GERTIE shack
Marlene Cyncora
Deepest sympathy to all of Shannon’s family. My prayers & thoughts are with you at this very sad time. Take comfort that she is in the arms of Jesus.
Gaylene Halayko
Shannon was such an amazing person, friend and colleague. She will be dearly missed by so many. Our hearts go out to the Lanoway family, along with Landon and Ken. We hold you dear in our hearts. Love you and miss you Shannon. Things won’t be the same without you.
Stacey Kosmuk
I am so incredibly sorry for your loss and my thoughts are with Shannon’s family at this very difficult time xo
Maryann Whitehead
Our deepest sympathy and condolences to the Neustater and Lanoway families in the loss of Shannon,-beloved wife of Ken and mother to Landon, and to Bob and Virginia Lanoway-eldest daughter and to Sherry, Tracy and Reggie-a sister who will be truly missed, forever remembered with cherished memories. From Maryann Whitehead, daughters and husbands Cheryl and Jason, Heather and Roshan. Sending you prayers and hugs.
Shawn Muth
Sorry for your loss.
Heather Korlak
Dear Lanoway and Neustater Families:
Our sincere condolences on the loss of Shannon. She was a beautiful soul. A wonderful colleague and our daughter Maddy’s grade 4 teacher. She was a friend with the best laugh and the kindest heart. Thinking of you all,
Heather Korlak, John Ehinger and family.
Ramona Niemczyk
My most sincere and deepest condolences. Shannon was a great friend, co-worker and teacher. Three of us teachers all got married the same year. She will be missed. A beautiful person has gone too soon.
Love Ramona Winnicki Niemczyk
Kimberley Fleming
I am truly sad to hear the news about Shannon. I missed her presence when she left E.B.E.Y.S. I admired her kindness and intelligence. She was also funny and I loved to hear her laugh. I know she will be missed by many people. My condolences to Ken, Landon, her parents and family members. Cherish the precious moments and may you find peace and support during this difficult time:.
Krista Semenchuk
My deepest condolences. I went to school with Shannon and had fond memories of her. She was a wonderful person.
Jennifer Storoschuk
So very sorry. May your memories bring warmth to your heart at this difficult time. Condolences to Shannon’s families.
Judy poitras
To the Lanoway and Neustater families We are so sorry for your loss. Shannon was a wonderful person very caring . Please know our prayers and thoughts are with you all.
Art and Judy Poitras
Kathy and Wes and family
Ben and Lindsay and family
Heather Cyncora
My thoughts are with you all during this most difficult time. Shannon was a classmate in elementary and ESS .Her smile and sense of humor is what I remember most.
Nancy Trapp Melan
Sending lots of hugs and prayers for your family, my heart breaks as Shannon has gained her angel wings. I remember as a kid my Grandpa (Stan Wilgosh) used to bring us girls to your farm. Us kids would play while the adults visited. May your memories bring you peace, comfort and strength during this difficult time. So sorry for your loss.
Rosemarie Fraser
So very, very sorry for the loss of Shannon. I was fortunate enough to work directly with Shannon at Ebeys. Shannon had the kindest heart and beautiful laugh. We had so much fun. Ken and Landon may you have comfort from the beautiful memories you three created. Shannon loved you both so very much. She will certainly be missed.
Maureen Mozel
My deepest condolences to all of Shannon’s family and friends. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time
Lisa Pats
My condolences to Ken, Landon and family. Shannon’s kindness touched everyone who knew her. She will be truly missed.
Colette Lindstrom
Our thoughts and prayers to Shannon’s family! So sorry for your loss!❤️
Lana and Mark Gardner
We are so sorry for your loss. Shannon will be dearly missed and will be in our hearts forever. Our prayers and thoughts are with you all.
Bev
To the Neustater & Lanaway families
My deepest condolences on the loss of Shannon My daughter had her as a teacher many years ago is now 27 but remembers Shannon as being one of her favorite teachers. She went above & beyond when a student needed that extra something. & I am forever grateful
May she rest in eternal peace. With loving thoughts… Bev & Darien Jolicoeur
Kathy Rempel
Shannon was a kind and gentle soul. My heart and prayers go out to her dear family.
Helene DeKezel
Our deepest Sympathies to the Neustater & Lanoway families on Shannon’s sudden passing. Our thoughts & prayers are with you all during the sad time. May she RIP.
Lou & Helene Savisky
Noreen Fedirko
I am so sorry for your loss my prayers and thoughts are with the family at this sad time.
Kristjana Kosheluk
Ken, Landon, and family
May my thoughts and prayers be with you all at this very shocking sudden sad time. Shannon was a wonderful amazing person inside and out. From my former sister in law to co worker (Sunrise, CFS, and ACL) and volunteer extraordinaire. May her memory be cherished and know that she is watch down on all of us.
Maja Larson
I am so sorry for your loss. I enjoyed working with Shannon, her bright spirit and generous nature will be deeply missed.
Ben Arsenault
Our condolences to the Ken, Landon, and family.
Shannon will definitely be missed.
Ben and Judy Arsenault
Crawford and Jody Bartel
Our deepest condolences to you!
Laura (Christensen) Koster
I’m so sorry for your loss Ken, Landon, Bob, Virginia and family. Shannon was a wonderful, kindhearted person.
Tina Latrofa
There are no words to express how sorry I am for your family. Shannon was such a bright light in our school. Always bringing humour to every situation. We will miss you! Shine bright and I know you are looking over us. Sending love, prayers and strength to help you all through this extremely hard time.
Tina Latrofa
Bonnie & Denis Pescitelli
Our deepest condolences to Shannon’s family, friends, and community. She was a wonderful person who we feel privileged to have known. Her legacy of kindness will live on in all those lives she’s touched.
marilyne stobbe
My deepest sympathy for your loss- my condolences and prayers are with you- may fond memories help heal in days to come ! She is now a shining star in the night sky watching g over you! RIP Shannon XO
Virginia Kubish
My deepest Condolences to all of Shannons’ Family. My thoughts and Prayers are with you all and may God give each and everyone of her family the strength to get through this very sad loss and to cherish all the beautiful memories. May she Rest In Peace.
Vic and Sue Wollmann
Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you on the loss of Shannon. She left a godly legacy and impact on all who knew her. Our fondest memories are the “Chuckwagon days with her and Sherry” May you feel God’s peace and comfort knowing she is waiting for you in Heaven now. We love you all.
Tracy Doerksen
So sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you.
Jocelyn Hamill
My condolences and prayers are with Shannon’s family. I have had the privilege of knowing Shannon through school and also as a neighbour. We have lost an amazing, kind and compassionate member of our community.
Dee
Sending thoughts, prayers and hugs to Shannon’s family, friends and all who knew her.
Shannon was an amazing human being who went above and beyond. She worked with our son Josh and he would not have received the care in SMS if it wasn’t for her. She even made time to talk to our daughter Madi. We will never forget all she did before Josh was sent off to SCI. Most importantly, loved how Shannon’s eyes shon when she talked about her family.
Thanks for everything Shannon. Rest in peace and shine like the star you deserve to be. You will never be forgotten.
The Henschel family
Barb Monteith
Heartfelt sadness for each family member. Praying God’s peace for each of you.
Tracy Falk
Many hearts broke with the sudden passing of Shannon. She was like a loving beam of light everywhere she went. She was the kind of person who made you feel good by just being in her presence. She was funny, real, loving, selfless and always present. We all know how amazing she was with kids but she was the same with adults! We all loved her and will miss her always. Many condolences to her family. May your beautiful memories of her always give you comfort!
Roberta Teleglow
To Ken, Landon and all of Shannon’s family, my deepest condolences.
Mary Ann & Art Wiebe
Our sincere condolences to you Ken and your family. May you all experience the peace of God as you mourn the passing of your loved one.
Lisa and Jody Wielgosh
Such a caring and beautiful person who always put others first❤️ Our deepest condolences.
Alana Palmer
Deepest condolences to the family. Shannon was a wonderful person. We went to high school together and enjoyed alot of good belly laughs. Awesome person who will be missed by many.
Alana Palmer
Brent Stokes
So fortunate to have spent the beginning of my career working with such as passionate educator. She was also hilarious! She made so many great connections with staff & students and she was so supportive and caring with the ones who needed her most. I learned a lot by watching her.
My sincere condolences to Ken, Landon, family & friends
Randy Steinke
So very sorry for your loss!
Leona Weidman
I am so very sorry to hear of Shannon’s passing. My sympathies to you all. May God give you His Comfort and Strength ♥️
Leslie Lake
I am so sorry for your loss. What a difficult time I know you are all going through. You are all in my prayers. Grieve openly and with support from each other.
Jane Bialek
My condolences to the Lanoway family. So very sorry for your loss. My heart is sad for each and everyone of you. I will be praying for God’s peace and comfort as you grieve.
Merna
My deepest condolences to Ken, Landon and the Lanoway family. Shannon will be missed but remembered for all her kindness and the hearts she touched. Rest In Peace Shannon!
Tony, Delilah, Tiana and Karter
We are so sorry for your loss. We so loved Shannon. She was a true gem. ❤️
Sending your family our love and strength through this time.
Margo Granda
I was in the Early Years after degree BEd program at the U of M with Shannon. We shared a lot of laughs in our T01 cohort over those years. Condolences to both her home and her school families at this sad time.
Jonathan Cooper
I know I should write a few words about what Shannon meant to me, but it’s not possible to do that in just a few words so, here are my many words.
We all have different identities in our personal lives and at work. Shannon and I have worked together for many years in many schools while she was a teacher, a behaviour teacher, a resource teacher, and as a vice principal. I’ve seen her as my friend, as a friend to her colleagues, as a co-worker, as an employee to the boss, as an expert to the parents she served, and as a leader to our school team, and, regardless of the pressure to act otherwise, she has always been true to herself and her ideals. Despite her different roles or the various difficult situations, I’ve never once seen her anything but authentic to her personality, her values, and her beautiful spirit. I haven’t met a more genuine person, and I’ve admired her for the courage that takes!
You didn’t have to know Shannon for very long to know that she lived authentically while always considering others’ needs and doing her best to treat everyone with courtesy and respect. She was never more abrasive with a child, a parent, a colleague, or a team just because she thought that’s how a leader gets things done. Even in the most stressful situations she stayed her funny, down to earth, welcoming, nonjudgmental, patient, and calm self.
Shannon taught us all by example that you don’t have to be prefect to make a difference in someone’s life, you just have to care. To care is to love and Shannon had a lot of love to give. It was hard to be just acquaintances with Shannon because she made people feel like lifelong friends after meeting for the first time. We all know that you can be a part of a person’s life without making an impact, but Shannon showed that there’s a lot more to being in somebody’s life than just being there. She was intentional about making a positive difference in the lives of her students, colleagues, and friends. She always led with kindness and freely offered emotional support and encouragement to students, parents, friends, and colleagues. Shannon’s caring ways were simple but always made you feel important. She showed her students she cared by being involved in the things that helped them grow. She sincerely cared about friends’ and colleagues’ lives, their health, their mental well-being. Funny end of the week memes, a simple joke, a shared laugh, a kind word, a shared drink at the end of a hard day, a supportive email all had an impact on my life and were the ways she made me feel cared for. If you ever find yourself wondering if she made a difference in the world, just know there are hundreds of students, teachers, and school psychologists whose lives have been made better by her understated intelligence, generosity, and loving spirit. Not many people can positively impact as many lives as she did.
Shannon had just the right amount of professional. Everything she did was without ego, so she had the strength and openness to deal with problems quickly, which made her a great administrator. She was honest with herself and with others, she was willing to accept the consequences of being true to what she considered right, and she took responsibility for her mistakes. As a result, you could always trust the judgements and decisions she made. Yes, you could trust that she would communicate honestly and say what she meant, while respecting other’s needs and feelings, but she was not a stuffed shirt either. She was funny and so down-to-earth she’d also freely laugh her big contagious laugh at the occasional off-colour joke. I will always admire her quiet inner strength and respect her for all that she did to make the world a better place for those around her. I will miss her dearly!
Lloyd & Val Neufeld
How can mere words express condolence in times like this
However, lack of words does not mean lack of heartfelt caring and that is what we so wish to express.
We got really close one weekend on being able to attend and be blessed on a dinner invite to Ken and Shannon’s just lately but, sadly, things didn’t work out for that weekend, and a future date was in the works. Val and I were really looking forward to it – I believe a beef roast was on the menu!! I’m sure it would have been super yummy and that we would’ve really enjoyed the fellowship too.
From the Lanoway, Neustater, Hofer, and Conboy families.
We just wanted to thank everyone for the kind words and sharing what she meant to you. Shannon was an incredible human that gave so much of herself to her family, co-workers and friends. Shannon meant so much to many. The road ahead will not be easy for any of us and I wanted everyone to know that for the family, reading these messages brings great comfort. It is touching to read all of the memories from people that she grew up with, went to school with, shared her life with, and worked with.
Lea Chorney
I’m so sorry for your loss. My deepest condolences to Shannon’s family. My thought and prayers are with during this difficult time.
Jen Lowry
My deepest condolences. I was fortunate enough to drive to school with Shannon for a few years. She was funny, kind, and would do anything to help others. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Debra Teichroeb
Sending my Deepest Condolences to Ken & Landon and the rest of Shannon’s Family. She was a lovely person, gone too soon. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Jennifer Smoak De Piero
Mrs. Neustater was part of my daughter’s support team these last couple years at OBE and quite frankly she was just a gem to deal with. She listened, she supported, she advised, she understood and all with a smile and a willing spirit. She will be deeply missed.
To her family I am so sorry for your loss.
Christel Fiebelkorn
My deepest condolences to the Lanoway & Neustater families. Shannon was a great friend and co worker. She was a wonderful caring and kind person. I was very fortunate to have worked with Shannon at EBEYS. She was a funny, generous, genuine person who would do anything to help anyone who needed it. She will be dearly missed by all who knew her. Rest in Peace Shannon.
Glen and Heather Godri
We are so sorry for your loss. Shannon was such a fun person. We loved to hear the laughter that happened when you were all together. I am still using the beautiful Bible she gave me for teaching her piano. God will carry you through this loss.
Bob and Esther Hildebrand
We are so very sorry to read about the passing of your daughter. It must be a very difficult time and we wish you peace and strength as you journey through this. Our hearts go out to you!
Anita Basic
My deepest sympathies to the Lanoway family. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Amanda (Werner) vandriel and family
Deepest condolences to the families. My heart goes out to you all. We (my sister and brother) used to ride the school bus together. What I remember the most is that long driveway, bikes in the ditch and running to the bus! All of you were so wonderful and kind. There was always laughter. I know that Shannon will be so missed but she will shine her light!
Georgina Klassen
Bob, Virginia & Family: Heartfelt condolences on your great loss. May your hearts continue to fill with your treasured memories of Shannon & bring you comfort & peace.
Georgina & John Klassen
Darlene Hunt
Ken and Landon…Apologizes for not being physically able to attend the service..know that I have been thinking of you two a great deal. Sincerest Condolences, Darlene Hunt and Family
Melonie Okapiec
I am so sorry to Shannon’s family and her son Landon. She was a wonderful person and she was so proud to be a mom to you Landon. I was blessed to work with Shannon and lucky to call her my friend. We shared many laughs and some tears supporting our students together and I will remember her always. Shannon was a bright light in everyone’s lives and you could always count on her smile when you saw her. Landon-you have your mom’s smile and I know that you will continue to shine her light—she is always with you. Sending love—Melonie
Mrs. Chernysh and family
Our sorrow at Mrs Neustater passing is not something we can put into words. Our prayers and love go out to her family and friends at this most painful and challenging time… Please accept my condolences.
P.S. Mrs Neustater was an amazing person! I feel so lucky that I got to know her.
The Ewasko’s
Very sad, thoughts and prayers are with the whole family! I really enjoyed working with Shannon! She will be missed by so many.
Anthony Stanley
From the Stanley family in Manitoba and in British Columbia, we pass on our most heartfelt sympathies.
Carlos and Cordella
We are so very sorry to Ken, Landon and the entire family for the immense loss of Shannon. We wanted to offer our heartfelt condolences. Much peace and love to everyone.
Gerald Graves
Verginia and Bob and families, You have my deepest sympathies for your loss. Shannon was such a great person. Your friend Gerry Graves.
Sherri Azyan
My condolences to the Lanoway family. Such a beautiful dear woman. I enjoyed our conversations at Oakbank. I loved seeing Chico when Shannon brought him in. I could see she loved her dog so much. My prayers go out to your family. I pray for peace in your family during this time.
Chris and Michele Trupish
Bob and Virginia,
Our deepest condolences on the loss of your daughter, Shannon. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.