August 1, 1958 ~ January 20, 2024
It is with great sadness that we say good bye to Carol Lynn Hay (nee Fiebelkorn) after a long and courageous battle with cancer with her husband Tom and daughter Christy by her side.
Carol is survived by her husband of 47 years Tom, daughter Christy Smith and husband Neal, grandchildren Grayson and Emmett Smith and Kayley and Kierra Hay. Pre-deceased by her son Jason Hay on February 1, 2023; parents Karl and Gwendolyn Fiebelkorn and just recently her sister Brenda Otto.
Carol grew up on the family farm on Hwy 317 in Brokenhead, attending the school there. During her early years Carol enjoyed playing baseball, hockey against the boys from Beausejour and Ukrainian Dancing. In 1970 her dancing took her to center stage where she danced for Queen Elizabeth II at Dugard’s Park. Not a stranger to a stage she entered as a contestant in the 1976 Winter Farewell Carnival Queen Pageant. Starting in the 8th grade she continued her education at Edward Schreyer School. However, it wasn’t until grade 9 when her life with Tom began; dating all through high school, getting engaged when Carol was just in grade 11. Once she graduated, she was excited to officially start her life with Tom and they were married on October 16, 1976. Carol and Tom feel so blessed to have had 47 years of marriage and over 50 years all together. While Tom was busy starting his career as a painter in the autobody industry, Carol began her working life as an underwriter at Canadian Indemnity Insurance in Winnipeg. It was here that she honed her amazing typing skills reaching speed of 98 wpm.
On February 9, 1980 her and Tom welcomed daughter Christy Lynn at St. Boniface Hospital. In 1981 Carol, Tom and Christy left their home in St. Vital and moved to Beausejour into a new home they had built. It was also in this home that she spent her final days. In November 1981 she put her typing skills to use and began working at the library in Beausejour. A few years later Jason Thomas was born on July 3, 1983.
Carol and Tom enjoyed spending time together as husband and wife so much so that they became business partners as well. In 1990 they formed Kolors Autobody Supplies. During the early stages Carol continued to work a couple of days a week at the library conveniently located right next door to “the shop”. In 1991 as the business was growing, she quit her job at the library and began working at Kolors full time as DA BOSS. Eventually Kolors grew so much that it was time to leave the small rented space on Park Ave. and moved to a building that they proudly built and owned on Selch Street in the Beausejour Industrial Park. As business and life partners they ran Kolors for 31 years until their retirement.
Over the years Carol wore many hats but at the top of her list was being a wife to Tom and a very proud mother to Christy and Jason. Watching her children grow and accomplish so many things like their high school graduations when they received their diplomas and threw their caps in the air brought her great joy and made her beam with pride. Always having a knack for helping others she also served as a Sunday and Vacation Bible School Teacher, Brownies, YBC bowling and managing her children’s soccer and hockey teams. Carol also valued her Christian Faith so it was very special to her when Christy and Jason were baptized, confirmed and married in the Lutheran church.
As her grandchildren were born her beautiful brown eyes shone brighter and her smile and joy grew bigger from the moment she first held each of them for the first time. It was such a beautiful sight to see her heart bursting with pride and happiness. She held close every minute that she was able to spend with them even those in her final days. Hearing the girls say “Hi Gramma” and the boys “Hi Mamma” and the hugs and kisses that followed were her absolute favourite. Even when she was no longer physically able to play, she loved to watch the four of them play and run around the house squealing and giggling. It was the best when the house was filled with joyful noise.
During the last few years Carol and Tom were happy to enjoy traveling, taking vacations to Mexico, The Dominican Republic, The Bahamas, Jamaica and Cuba to name a few. A good time, tons of laugher and adventures were always assured when traveling with their FUFV friends. During the summer a lot of time was spent camping around Manitoba with favourite spots in Hecla, Winnipeg Beach, Lilac Resort and the Rubber Ducky Resort. For 30 years there were also many great weekends spent at THE LAKE; sitting around the campfire, on the water, even though she couldn’t swim or a simple walk down Chopp Rd. She also enjoyed the time she was able to relax and curl up with a good book in the camper by herself.
We would like to thank the many doctors and nurses that helped care for Carol during her battle; Dr. Nick and all the staff at the Beausejour Hospital, Dr. Biniam Kadani from Thoracic Surgery and Dr. Anthony Kaufmann and the Gamma Surgery Department at HSC, Dr. Susan Green, Oncologist at HSC and Cancer Care , all the special people on the Radiology department in the Chemo Clinic, Cancer Care MB, Dr. Schellenberg and staff at Selkirk Hospital. Special thanks to nurse Mary Rose Operana for all the little things that she did – her kindness will not be forgotten. Lastly, we would like to thank Dr. Donna Puff and nurse Laura Klammer and staff from Palliative Care and the Interlake Eastern RHA.
A Memorial Service will be held on Saturday, January 27 at 11:00 a.m. at Sobering Funeral Chapel, 1035 Park Avenue E., Beausejour with interment to follow in Zion Lutheran Cemetery.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to CancerCare Manitoba, 675 McDermot Avenue, Winnipeg, MB R3E 0V9.
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Debbie and Larry Okolita
So sorry to learn of Carol’s passing. Our sincere condolences.
Randy Steinke
So very sorry for your loss Tom and Christy.
Don Faryon
Tom very sorry to hear of Carols passing my condolences to you and your family. My she rest in peace
Dean Zielke
My Condolences to u Tom& Family and Friends.
Rob Felicioni
Sorry to hear of Carols passing. My condolences to you and your family.
Helene DeKezel
We’re so sorry to hear of Carol’s passing. Our condolences to you , Christy & your family .
May she RIP
Lou & Helene Savisky
Debbie Felicioni
Our deepest condolences to you Tom, Christy, and grandchildren. I am in a loss for words. Carol was in my thoughts every day, what a courageous woman she was, fighting this battle for so long. I have so many good memories of being able to spend my summer holidays with her on the farm. She was a special person and will be truly missed. ❤️❤️
Susan Kaatz
So very sorry for your loss. May she Rest in Peace. Another one gone far too young. Sincere condolences
Susan and Rick Kaatz
Teresa gmiterek
LOUIE AND I ARE VERY SORRY TO HEAR OF CAROL’S PASSING. ANOTHER BEAUTIFUL ANGEL GONE FAR TO SOON. OUR CONDOLENCES TO YOU TOM AND YOUR FAMILY . R.I.P. CAROL..
Kim Wenzoski
“When you lose someone you love, you gain an angel you know. Earth hath no sorrow that Heaven cannot heal” – Thomas Moore
So very sorry for your loss.
Cindy Betker
So sorry to hear of Carol’s passing. Hugs and prayers to you Tom and your family. A long, hard fought battle, RIP Carol.
Brian & Joanne
So sorry for your loss our thoughts are with you at this time. She fought a long battle and may she rest in peace.
Barry & Bonnie Schmidtke
We are very sorry to hear about Carol’s passing, may she rest in peace. Our deepest condolences go out to Tom, Christy and grandchildren.
Leona Weidman
So very sorry ,Tom, Kristy, family and friends. It has been a very long, hard battle. Now Rest In Peace, Carol. May God give you all His Comfort and Strength . Thinking of you all♥️
Darlene Omichinski
My condolences to Carol’s family. It was my privilege to get to know Carol and Tom over the last 2 years. Carol was a fighter and never complained about her illness, taking her days as they were given to her. May God’s Grace shine upon her family and bring comfort. Prayers for you Tom as I know she was the love of your life.
Shirley Cherrey
I’ve known Carol and Tom for many years. Such an amazing friendly couple who always took time to chat whenever I would meet up with them. Sending prayers to Tom and family on the loss of such a wonderful kind lady.
Ken and Terry Bachman
We are so sorry to hear of Carols passing. Our condolences to Tom and family.
Cathy & Sid
We are so sorry to hear of Carol’s passing. Our thoughts are with you Tom and family.
Audrey and Les Kaluzny
Our sincere condolences to you Tom and your Family. May Carol Rest in Peace.
Wayne and Kim Voss
Our sincere condolences Tom and Family. Our thoughts and Prayers are with you at this time. Heaven has now gained another Angel.
Marlene Sobering
So sorry to hear of Carol’s passing. My sincere sympathy to you and your family.
Gilbert & Janine Durand
Our sincere condolences Tom, Christy & family! Carol will be looking out for you all in a different fashion now! ❤️
Brian and susan mazur
Tom, Susan and I are sad to hear about Carol’s passing. We hope you find strength in your family to get through the pain.
Larry and Marcia Henzel
So sorry to hear of Carol’s passing. We will not be able to attend the memorial service as we are in Mesa Arizona but our thoughts are with you and your family and our sincere condolences.
Randal Splett
My condolences to you and your family.
Gerry & Irma
Our thoughts & prayers are with you Tom Christy & family during this sad time on the passing of your wife mother & grandma.
Perry and Bonnie Stefaniuk
Our sincere condolences, Tom and family.
Kris and Randee Penner
Our sincere sympathy and love to you….
Wish we had known Carol better. May God sustain you each day…❤️
Merna Omichinski
Tom, Kevin and I are so very sorry for your loss! Carol was always in my prayers. She was blessed to have such a loving supportive partner by her side. She was a beautiful woman with a great laugh and huge heart. What a courageous battle she fought! Her pain is gone now and heaven is blessed with another angel! Our condolences to you, Chrissy and all her grandbabies!
Paul, Lauree, Mackenzie and Christian
Dearest Tom, Christy and family. We were so very sorry to hear of Carol’s passing. Losing your wife, mom, and grandma is an unimaginable pain. Carol will be missed dearly. Please know that we are thinking of you and sending you love during this difficult time.
KEN SACKVIE
Sorry of your loss Tom
Jan & Brian Halowaty
We are so sorry to hear of Carol’s passing may she Rest in Peace. Our thoughts are with you Tom, Christy & grandchildren
Brenda and Chester Neduzak
We are so very sorry to hear of Carol’s passing. Our sincere condolences to you Tom, and your entire family at this most difficult time.
Carol and Rick Kilbrei
Tom we are so very sorry to hear of Carol’s passing. Our deepest condolences to you, your daughter and your grandchildren. Rest in peace Carol.
Charlotte Wall
I am so sorry for your loss. May she rest in peace.
Guy and Shelley Barkman
Our hearts go out to you and your family, Tom.
She was a great lady amd we always enjoyed our little visits at the shop.
May you find strength in the love and support from all who knew and loved her..
Jan Leclerc
Tom, Christy and family – I am so very sorry for your loss. I will treasure so many good memories of the fun times spent with Carol over the years. She will be truly missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Debbie and Lorne Winnicki
So sad to hear of Carols passing. I know she will be deeply missed by all who knew her. Our sincere condolences to Tom , Kristy , Carols grandchildren and extended family.
Darlene Vandenberghe
So sorry to hear of Carol’s passing. Cherish your memories. RIP Carol.
Don Reimer
Dear Tom and family,
You continue to be in our thoughts and prayers. We are sad with you on Carol’s passing.
Darlene and Don Reimer
Norm & Jan Matthews
A gracious and wonderful lady to be around on our trips to Manitoba. She will be missed by all.
Art and pat linke
So sorry of your loss Tom. Take comfort in the many good memories
Susan Greschuk
So sorry for your loss. May she rest in peace.
Wayne Shotton
Very sorry to hear of Carol’s passing! Working with Carol back in the early 80’s at Canadian Indemnity was an absolute pleasure! Her smile and enthusiasm was always a highlight of the day. We have lost a good one!
Kristin Hayward
Tom & Christy,
I am so sorry to hear about the passing of Carol. I can only imagine the sorrow you have felt this year. The hardship your family has gone through over the past 12 months does not seem fair. Our deepest condolences go out to you at this very sad time.
Our thoughts & prayers are with you,
Kristin & Tim Hayward
Dolores & Craig Sigurgeirson
Sincere condolences to Tom and family on the loss of Carol.
Claudia Dumoulin
Tom, Christy and Family
So sorry to hear of Carols passing. She always had a big smile and had time to chat.
She will be missed.
David Fiebelkorn
Condolences to Tom and the family. Carol will always be remembered and will be sadly missed by everyone she knew.