Monica Middleton (nee Bestland)
Posted By Sobering Funeral Chapel On August 18, 2016 @ 2:39 pm In Obituaries | 42 Comments
September 21, 1965 – August 16, 2016
It is with profound sadness that we announce the passing of Monica Middleton after a short and hard fought battle with cancer at the Selkirk & District Hospital. She leaves behind her best friend and husband Richard Middleton and her precious sons Dillon, Shayne, William and Tristan. Monica also leaves behind her sister Sherry (Paul) and brother Bradley (Shirley); brothers in-law Andrew (Grace) and Evan (Leanne). She will be sadly missed by her nieces and nephews; extended family and friends. Monica was predeceased by her parents Carmelle and Arthur Bestland as well as her in-laws Mary and William Middleton.
Monica grew up in St. Pierre-Jolys, Manitoba where she graduated from High School and went on to get Bachelor of Physical Education degree from the University of Manitoba. She had a lengthy career with Revenue Canada where she held progressively responsible positions until her retirement in 2015. Monica was devoted to her family and while working full time always ensured her family came first. From getting the boys to their hockey games to making their gourmet meals and helping them with their homework and life’s challenges, she always made time for them.
Monica took great pride in her yard work both at home and at the cottage. She enjoyed travelling, spending time at the cottage and most importantly family time. She was looking forward to spending more time at their home in Arizona and travelling more with her husband as her family was growing up and leaving the nest.
She will be truly missed by all those whose hearts she touched. She was a compassionate, kind, selfless, giving person who did all things right. We are so blessed to have had her in our lives. The void she is leaving in our hearts will never be filled.
“Those we love don’t go away … they walk beside us every day.” Monica, you are always around us, engulfing us with your love, giving us strength, keeping us close and watching over us from above.
On behalf of the family, we extend our sincere gratitude to the caring and compassionate staff at the Selkirk & District Hospital and cousin Paula Fedoruk for being by our side through this most difficult time. We are having a Celebration of Monica’s Life at the Brokenhead Community Hall in Beausejour Manitoba at 11:00 a.m. on Monday August 22, 2016. In lieu of flowers, please consider making a donation in Memory of Monica to the Canadian Cancer Society or the Brokenhead River Community Foundation.
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Thinking of you! Hugs!
Cousin Marielle and Gary Dyck
My thoughts are with the family at this difficult time. My heart breaks every time we loose someone that is so young. Hugs!! Keep those special memories close at mind.
Monica possessed a beautiful and kind spirit that will never be forgotten. Condolences to all of her family. With love from the Ron & Bonnie Dreger
Our most sincere condolences to Monica’s family on the loss of their devoted wife & mother. Monica was such a sweet person, Heaven has another angel.
Sending you our prayers Bev (Monica’s cousin) & Gilbert Vermette.
Dear Richard and family,
As a business friend, I was more than overwhelmed with sadness upon learning of Monica’s passing.
All of this happened way to fast and she was way to young to leave yourself and the boys behind.
My sincere condolences and may you all be comforted by prayers and thoughts in this difficult time.
My sincere condolences to her family & friends.
I went to school with Monica, Graduated together. I remember her fondly because she had a profound natural kind quality about her.
Although I haven’t seen her in years, I remember her fondly .
Our thoughts and prayers are with the family.
I knew her as a proud hockey Mom – we cheered our Boys together in the stands at games. A cheerful, friendly person, always wearing a bright smile on such a pretty face. So very sorry for all who were close to her. Sending hugs especially to Shayne, one of Grandma Gail’s Best Boys/xo
Monica, beautiful light, generous soul, precious human being, I will always remember how you lit up a room with your way of being. Rest in peace sweet cousin. Condolences to your family.
Lucie Desaulniers et Michel Morris
Anna, Ava, Henri et Alain Gauthier
Stéphane Gauthier
Remember when Monica used to live at the west end of St Pierre along the Joubert creek when we used to have fun times playing together with her sister Sherry back in the early 70’s. We used to go play in the old buildings by their place which was an old mink ranch. My deepest sympathies to very good friends Sherry & Bradly. Also deepest sympathies to Richard Middleton and the boys.
On behalf of my family to yours, I offer heartfelt condolences to you Richard, and your sons. Monica’s passing will leave a profound memory for all of us whom she touched, even in the simplest of ways…she was a beautiful and kind soul with the smile and heart of an angel…we are all blessed for having had the privilege of having her cross our paths…God bless.
xo Michelle, Tera, Russell and Dufault family.
We are so sorry for your loss our thoughts and prayers are with you . Condolences to all of her family .
Kurtis and Joanne Gafka
Our deepest sympathies to the family during this very sad and difficult journey. Monica will be greatly missed by many! I will always remember her beautiful warm smile.
Rick and Susan Hildebrand
Dear Sherry, Bradley, and family, I am so sorry for Monica’s passing. I so remember her love of life, caring ways and most beautiful smile. My thoughts and prayers are with you all as you mourn her loss. God bless Richard and their sons. Larry Gagne
I, along with my husband, wish to extend sincere condolences to Monica’s husband Richard, and to her four sons Dillon, Shayne, William and Tristan. Also to the rest of her family. May the beautiful memories of their loved one live in their hearts forever, and help to ease their grief. Having met Monica thru work and knowing her socially thru hockey, I found her to be a wonderful genuine person…she will be sadly missed by all who knew her. There is one more beautiful rose in God’s garden….
RIP dear Monica, our sincere condolences to her family. Love you all very much – Uncle Guy & Aunt Teri
Our deepest condolences to Monica ‘s husband,children ,relatives and friends.It saddens us all to loose someone so young and vibrant. Our deepest sympathy.
So sorry to hear about your wife our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Love you Monica. Our lives will never be the same without you. Enjoy the heavens as I know it will love having you there.
My sincere condolences to your family…. REST IN PEACE DEAR COUSIN
So sorry to hear of Monica’s passing. Fond memories of our time at high school and sporting events. Monica was a kind person and will be missed. Sincerest condolences to the family.
I was shocked and sorry to read of Monica’s passing. Although I haven’t seen Monica since her cousin Tanis and Johannes wedding I remember her as a sweet young girl. Our daughter Tara Bestland Lowry is Monica’s first cousin. Love and prayers sent to all of Monica’s family.
We are truly a blessed family who loves each other very much. I am so proud to be a part of it. I believe that through this difficult and seemingly unjustified experience that Monica’s passing is to remind us all how precious life is and to remind us the importance of family. I am so sorry for her loss, she will undoubtably be deeply missed. – Jaimie A.
Before I began teaching at Edward Schreyer, Monica did a selfless act of picking me up in a rainstorm when I was 42 weeks pregnant and walking home from COOP. I thanked her years later profusely and we had a good laugh together. Thru the years I have taught at EESS she has been a supportive and kind parent who always worked hard for her family. My sincere condolences from my family.
Our family is deeply saddened by the loss of Monica. Our hearts go out to you and your family in your time of sorrow. Beyond the sorrow may looking back in memory help comfort you tomorrow . Hugs to sherry, Bradley and Families, Richard and boys.
Auntie Rita, Louise,Doris, Gerald, Michelle and Families
Rich, Dillon, Shayne, Will, Tristan and family, our deepest sympathies go out to you all. I am so saddened to hear about Monica and your loss of a beloved wife & mother.
Monica was truly a blessing inside & out. Her smile was infectious. Sending our love to you all. Randy & Tammy
Condolences to you and your family at this most difficult time
It was with profound sadness that I learned of the sudden passing of Monica. My heartfelt sympathy goes to you, Richard, and your sons. May the cherished memories of your life together bring comfort and consolation in the days ahead. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
Monica was a bright light everywhere she went and she is gone much to soon. I will miss seeing her smiling face. My heart breaks for her family on their profound loss.
My deepest condolences to the family. Fond memories in high school with her, Louise, Patricia, and myself. Never kept up with them after high school but always knew Monica would be a great person , wife, and mother. She will truly be missed.
Was so saddened to hear of my longtime friends passing , all those sleepovers , horse riding , hide and seek days will never be forgotten , you will always hold a place near my Heart Monica Adieu till we meet again .. Deepest sympathies to her Husband & children .. Sherry & Brad and there families …Gone but never forgotten
My deepest condolences Richard and family during this very difficult time. My thoughts are with you.
My sincere condolences to Monicas family on the loss of a wife, mother, sister and friend. Monica was a beautiful person both inside and out. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
So sorry to hear about Monica. One of your Moms many cousins. Patsy Desaulniers, Archies daughter
Joel and I are so sad to hear about Monica. We are sending the whole Family our sincere condolences. We will keep you all in our prayers. Joel (Aurele and Gabrielle Desaulniers’ son) and Christine
My deepest condolences to you, Richard, and your family. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. So sorry for your loss.
Condolences to Richard, Dillon, Shayne, William, Tristan, Sherry, Paul, and family. Monica was a wonderful, caring person and she will be sadly missed by all who knew her. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Rick and family, we just heard the sad news of Monica’s passing. We offer our deepest sympathy. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
There are no words, really. We are shocked and saddened to hear of your profound loss, Richard. May you and your boys find strength and comfort in each other and the many friends around you as you negotiate the waves of emotion on this stormy sea of grief. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Shawn and Anthony
So sad to hear of Monica’s passing. She will always be remembered. I went to high school with Monica we did a lot of sports events in school and after school. I last saw Monica about 6 years ago we were both traveling to Arizona we had a great visit before we went to different parts of Arizona. My sympathies to her family and friends.
My heart just sank when I heard, beautiful smiling Monica is no longer with us. To Sherry and Bradly I offer you my deepest condolences . She will be , I am certain , greatly missed. Fortunately we all have the memory of her lovely smile to carry with us when we need a lift.
Martial
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It was with great sadness when I heard this news. My condolences to the family. I knew Monica through work and also had the privilege of knowing her outside of work through friends and slo-pitch tournaments. She will be sorely missed and a little bit of sunshine has left the earth.